Con sex by Miz Pink

Okay, after the lighter, fluffier sex topic for today (see previous post, Pro Sex), let’s get into something far more unpleasant. Something you should never do (hence the “con” sex). Something, in fact, that you should be locked up for for a very very long time if you do it (also a source of the “con” sex title because you’ll be wearing convict orange I hope).

Child sexual abuse.

Deke already touched on this when he did his Truly Beastly post. I’m pretty sure he intended to follow up on that thought with a full post on sex with children soon. I’m gonna beat him to it though.

You can, for the most part, substitute the word “animal” with “kid” in the bestiality post by Deke to get a flavor for how I feel about it. Sex with kids is E.v.i.l with a capital E. There is no justification. No matter what’s wrong with your desires, if you’ve considered it or done it you know it’s wrong. Don’t tell me you don’t. Don’t tell me the kid really wants it. The kid isn’t emotionally equipped to decide that, especially doing it with someone old enough to know better. Don’t tell me it was okay in the Middle Ages. This is modern day and you ain’t grown until 18. Okay, maybe at 16 or 17 I start cutting you some grown slack but don’t tell me that a girl is ready for sex just because she’s had a period or a boy is because he had his first wet dream.

I was speaking recently with a friend I’ve been out of touch with and asked her about one of her friends that I knew a little about. Well, it turns out I knew very little. Girlfriend aint’ my friend’s friend anymore, and it probably didn’t help when she found out the child of that former friend hadn’t been given a bath by mommy since the age of 2 because mommy started feeling inappropriate desires.

Now I’m glad it seems mommy sickest didn’t go off the deep end and commit sexual abuse against that child, but NOT giving the child baths is only step one. Therapy should have been behind door number 2. If you can have thoughts like that about a child especially one that’s blood of your blood, you need help and fast.

I’m liberal and I’m no fan of our prison system in general. But there are folks I’m willing to send there damn near forever and people who sexually abuse children are among them. And if you did that crap to one of MY children you’d have a date with some duct tape, an electric bread knife, a rusty potato peeler and a pair of pliers and you wouldn’t have anything to identify you by gender (externally at least) by the time I was done with you. If you were lucky, Sir Pink might pick you off with a rifle like the one in the picture above and leave you with a slow-death bleeding gut wound but he’s a lot more easygoing than I am.

From a Christian standpoint and from a human decency standpoint, if you’ve ever seriously thought about doing it you need help now. And if you’ve done it already, I don’t care how much you’ve apologized to God or if you’ve done it again, you need to do your time in a prison too and I hope you do.

Zero tolerance on this one, folks. No wiggle. If the person ain’t grown, don’t go there. Even the worst convicts hate child molesters with a vengeance. Think about that one.

Now, for something more constructive, some sites related to child sexual abuse prevention, information and help:

• Reporting Abuse: Darkness to Light 
• Prevention & Education: Child Molestation Research & Prevention Institute
• Stop It Now!
• American Academy of Child & Adolscent Psychiatry page on child sexual abuse